Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Patience Please!?!?

I'm not sure what it is, but I seem to be low on patience this week.  Feeling exasperated by seemingly endless, and uncharacteristic, whining, has been plaguing me all week.  I think we are living in a transitional state right now, and transitions, are hard.  Mackenzie can walk, but only a few steps and I think this frustrates her now.  Playing independently has not been her strong point this week(and that is usually my time to get stuff done!) and I think it's because she wants me to help her walk around since she can only take a few steps at a time.  If I know my child......she wants to be able to GO!  Full on walking is her new goal & frustrations abound when she has to sit or crawl!  

Add to that, we are in a napping transition to boot.  She has become a little late sleeper (no complaints about that!) and will sleep until at least 8:30 now (and sometimes 9:00 or later!!).  But then, by the time she's tired again, it's like 11am.  If she goes down for a nap then, she sleeps past one.  And then, not tired for afternoon nap until after 4pm or later.  Meaning she sleeps til 6pm and let's just say that then an 8:30 bedtime is not happening.  So, we've been trying to forgo a full morning nap & she just catnaps in the car while I run errands or I wake her up if she sleeps at home.  Then, goes down for a good 2.5 hour nap around 2:30.  But, I'm not sure she's ready for one nap, maybe that's why she's whiny??  But at the same time, I don't want an 11pm bedtime!  AHHH.....  I'm sure if I woke her up at say, 7am, she'd take a morning nap.....but lets be honest - this girl ain't getting her up if she ain't already awake at that hour.  (And odds are I was up late myself doing something like writing a blog post!).  

Ah....the joys of parenthood.  Praying for patience.  Tomorrow is another day.

2 comments:

Lora Lee & Lora Kate's Blog said...

This was the point w/ Lora Kate that I, too, was tested in the patience department. Hang in there. She's transitioning into that 1-2 yr stage. It gets SO much better when she can talk - just a few words her and there even - and tell you what she wants. This 12 month - 19 month stage was tough but by 20 months LK had really gotten SO much better and now at 22 months it's night and day!! Good luck!!

Mommy Attorney said...

Hang in there! Praying for you!